You need to develop bounce back ability. Winners lose more than losers lose, but winners get back up and keep trying till they get it. Losers lose and give up. If you are going to be a winner, you have to keep going, no matter how many time you lose, and sooner or later, you will be the winner. Michael Jordan was cut from his high school basketball team in the 10th grade, but he didn't give up. Michael Jordon bounced back and I don't have to tell you the rest of that story. So you need to focus on the "wins" that are ahead of you, and not on the losses that are behind you. Bounce back from defeat and be the winner you have inside yourself.